If you let your singleness control you, it will lead you on a path of destruction, and the further into that path you go, the harder it will be to get out.

如果你让单身控制你，它会带你走上毁灭之路，在这条路上走得越远，就越难走出来。

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Are you in control of your singleness, or is your singleness in control of you?

是你控制你的光棍地位，还是你的光棍地位控制你？

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