In fact, what motivates me everyday is the thought of having my time, energy, health and family UNDER the CONTROL of someone other than myself scares the heck out of me.

其实，我每天什么动机是想在我的时间、能源、卫生和家庭以外的控制下走出自己害怕啥米话。

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Only if you insist on denying someone the freedom to live his own life on his own terms, instead of under someone else's control.

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