In English you use a command or a request when you want someone to do something.

在英语中，当你想让别人做什么事时，可以使用命令或请求。

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You only want someone to do something about it. You only want someone to be able to do something about it.

你只希望能有人做点什么，希望有人有这个能力改变些什么。

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That feeling you get when you don't want someone to do something for you because it would be a pain for them.

这种感觉就是当你不想让某些人为了你而做某些事，因为这将对他们造成伤害。

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That means you can give someone advice but you cannot force him to do something he does not want to do.

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when you want someone to, not to do something that's going to be harmful or uncomfortable or strange.

或者你不希望某人做一些有害的，令人不安的或是奇怪的行为。

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