When you are feeling unhappy, you know you don't need more food or addictive substances, you need to love yourself in brand new ways.

当感觉不幸福时，你知道不需要更多的食物，或者其他麻醉人的东西；你要的是，用全新的方法爱自己。

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When you get into a late-life relationship, you don't do that anymore. You know yourself better, and you make accommodations for one another.

当你开始一段晚年恋爱关系时，你不会再那么做了，你更加了解自己，也会适应他人了。

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When you don't know what to do for yourself, go do something for another person (or for animals, the environment, etc...).

当你不知道自己要做什么时，那就去为别人(或动物，环境等…)做一些事情。

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"When you allow yourself to think of it, you don't know whether you are going to laugh or cry, " he says.

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