Why don't you talk it over with her? Encourage her to be?

你为什么不和她好好谈一谈，鼓励她准时一点，或者告诉她你对这件事很恼火呢？

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"If you can begin to understand an accomplishment in detail and be able to talk about what makes it work you will begin to know why your sentences work or don't work" Fish explains.

“如果你开始从细节上去理解一个句子，并且能够说出每个部分是如何起作用的，那么你就可以知道自己的句子是好是坏以及其原因了。”菲什解释说。

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"If you can begin to understand an accomplishment in detail, and be able to talk about what makes it work, you will begin to know why your sentences work or don't work," Fish explains.

“如果你开始从细节上去理解一个句子，并且能够说出每个部分是如何起作用的，那么你就可以知道自己的句子是好是坏以及其原因了。”菲什解释说。

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So why don't you talk about the experience that you had in Israel and also a little bit about what it means to be an Orthodox Jew for those people who don't know maybe the difference between reform and conservative Orthodox.

那何不讲讲你,在以色列的经历,再讲讲,什么是犹太教正统派,向那些可能不知道,改革以及保守正统派的区别的人解释一下。

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