You have to find your own groove, but chances are that you have to tell people what you think if you’ve got a small crowd bothering you all the time.

你要调整到自己的最佳状态，但是如果你身边总是有一小堆人在打扰你的话，那么你要把握好机会告诉他们你怎么想的。

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If there is a phone call you need to make, for example, it might bother you all morning, sapping your ability to think clearly, even while you are unaware of what is bothering you.

比如你需要接一个电话，它可能打扰了你一早晨，它使你无法思考清晰，甚至当时你都没有意识到是什么在困扰你。

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Are they bothering you, because you genuinely don't think they 'vibe' with you?

因为你觉得根本和他们不合群，因此他们惹怒了你么？

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Then you might be able to say, look, you know, why are they bothering me.

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Why are you bothering him?

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