If you have any fault to find with any one, tell him, not others, of what you complain.

如果你在和他相处的过程中发现它的缺点，就告诉他，而不要像其他人那样，去抱怨。

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It’s not easy to find fault with a child’s effort to reclaim his lost parent.

的确，对于一个孩子努力找回自己失去的父母是很难进行挑剔和指责的。

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Discuss the purpose and rules - the AAR does not seek to criticize negatively, or find fault.

讨论目的和规则——AAR不会追求负面的批评，或是挑剔。

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