So, instead of being frozen by your self-preoccupation, begin with what you are preoccupied about.

所以，不要自我暗示，那会使你变的做作，而是要从你的心事开始。

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In the study, Barbora Nevicka and colleagues from the University of Amsterdam discovered narcissists' preoccupation with self-brilliance hinders successful group decision-making.

在这项研究中，来自阿姆斯特丹大学的芭芭拉。耐威克和同事们发现先入为主的自我欣赏会妨碍团队作出成功的决策。

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Our preoccupation with short-term, self-interest is causing us to be out of balance in our giving and receiving with each other.

FORBES: Jon Ramer: Leading the Charge to a More Compassionate Future