Because anger is often fueled by guilt and shame, making people feel bad about their behavior doesn't work either-it reinforces the angry person's sense of victimhood.

因为愤怒常因内疚、羞愧这样的情绪火上浇油，使人们对自己的行为大为不满，更加深了发怒人的羞愧情绪。

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The result is a refreshingly open-ended view of contemporary music-making that puts many of his predecessors, Burney among them, to shame.

结果便是他带给读者的清新自由的现代音乐创作观。 让他的许多前辈（伯尼居其中）不能望其项背。

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There is no shame in making the occasional stupid decision; that's part of being human.

偶尔做出愚蠢的决定并不丢人，那是我们人性的一部分。

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"Honor killings" -- the slaying by family members of a woman or girl thought to be bringing them shame -- are usually kept quiet, making it difficult to determine how frequently they occur.

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While the Center remains hopeful that such a step will not be necessary, it strongly believes that an express U.S. willingness to do so is becoming increasingly necessary to get the Serbs' attention, to parry the Russian "covert veto" and to shame the Europeans into providing their own sizeable peace-making forces -- before countless thousands more perish needlessly.

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"It's just a shame to see so many already wealthy industry old-hands making hay with all these old-fashioned role-playing games when so many dramatically more inventive and ambitious ideas from smaller studios are failing to reach their targets, " he added.

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