When you quarrel with a close friend, talk about the main dish, don; t quibble over the appetizers.

当你和你亲近的朋友吵嘴时，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻烂谷的事。

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Kelly won't divulge the details of his contract with AltaVista but doesn't quarrel with industry estimates that a provider of specialized information can earn as much as a nickel per page-view by sharing ad revenue with the portal.

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