Remember the little details of the people you met or you talk with; perhaps the places they have been to, the place they want to go, the things they like, the thing they hate—whatever you talk about.

记住你遇到的或者与你交谈过的人的小细节，也许是他们去过的地方、他们想去的地方、他们喜欢的东西、他们讨厌的东西——你们讨论的是什么都要记住。

youdao

You have to spoil yourself, love yourself the most, then you pick up very fast. Yeah, go out and talk to people, treat yourself like a queen, spend money, whatever, to make yourself feel good.

出去找人谈一谈，对待自己如同皇后般，去花一点钱、做任何让你觉得好受一点的事。

youdao

If this all strikes you as fancy, handlebar moustache talk from an old misanthrope who doesn't get things like whatever the hell we're calling "conversations" this week, maybe you're on to something.

如果你觉得我所说的复杂，就像我们今周所说的一个守旧的不愿与他人来往的人在自言自语，那可能你准备做其他事。

youdao

By the way, after class, I'm more than happy to stay as long as needed to answer any questions you guys have or to talk about whatever issues you'd like to bring up, but probably what makes sense is for me to power down the computer and pack up and then we can stand out in the hallway and I can answer questions out there, that way the next class can get in and the instructor can work unimpeded.

顺便说一下,课后,我很乐意多待一会,来回答你们的问题,或者讨论一些你们提出的问题,但我最好是,把电脑关掉,收拾好东西,然后在走廊里来回答你们的问题,这样下节课才能照常进行,老师也能正常授课

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"I don't like to talk about music that is that great, because whatever you say doesn't do it justice, " he said.

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