与他结婚63年的发妻玛丽先他11个月离开了人世。

His wife of 63 years, Mary, predeceased him by 11 months.

《柯林斯英汉双解大词典》

你必须完全放弃与他结婚的念头。

You must give up all thought of marrying him.

《新英汉大辞典》

最后，决定同意与他结婚。

I agreed to marry him on my final decision.

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So, in fact, you might want to marry John because he reminds you of your father or because you want to get back at somebody for betraying you.

所以，事实上你想与约翰结婚,可能是因为他让你想起了你的父亲,或是因为你想要报复曾经背叛了你的人。

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