But don't mistake soft-spokenness for a reluctance to say something controversial -- Juwono can not be accused of that.

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But, he said, "some South Koreans are worried that the wrong lessons have been learned, and that if something small happens, it could escalate because the South Korean government doesn't want to be accused of doing nothing".

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