Husband number one did not really like Singapore - maybe because we had to take a baby around packed streets and malls.

BBC: Nonya kueh: Wolfing down Singapore's wobbliest cake

But the identification of Shenae has given them hope that maybe morgue workers will locate Joyce Green's remains too, and maybe the family could bury the baby with her great-grandmother.

CNN: 'I knew it was over with'

As a self-employed video producer, maybe I should have worried about expenses after the baby was born, since I had no paid maternity leave.

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