That means you should guard yourself against your instinctive resentment of unfair offers, recognizing that getting somethingis usually betterthan getting nothing.
When the weather is dreary and cold, there's nothingbetterthan cooking something that heats up the house and fills it with fragrant aromas unless it's someone else doing the cooking.
And because the alternative is literally nothing at all, there is plenty of room to offer something that is infinitely betterthan that and will improve from there.