That experience can not just traumatize, but also condition some into future violence, inside and out of jail.

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"If you mix those groups, there's a risk that the stories they tell could actually re-traumatize kids who didn't see that, " Olbrich said.

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The truth is, however, that the same behaviors that wound and traumatize us as girls are alive and well in the workplace, undermining our career success.

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