"Salvador is a Hispanic kid. He told me he's no wimp, but he was crying - a wimp, I just want to change."

VOA: standard.2010.04.29

So--does the personality theory has to say Ohoo, different personality, that kid no longer ? exists, that person died.

所以，根据人格论,我们难道说，人格不同了，那个孩子,不存在了，那个人死了。

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Actually, for any form of discipline with a kid is to say, " "No, absolutely not.

实际上无论你用何种方式拒绝他，说，“不，绝对不行。

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And then later on the kid's going to say, " "I want to do it again" and you say no and the kid keeps asking because you've put it, well, put it as in a psychological way, not the way the behaviorists would put it.

这样以后，孩子还是会说，“我还想和你一起睡,你说不行,然后孩子就不停的问你,从心理学的角度来看，这是因为，你并未采取行为主义者们会采取的方法。

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