So I'm not even willing to use the L words in describing what it is we have." Right?

甚至不愿意,用爱来表达我们之间的关系？

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I'm very willing to talk to students about intellectual ideas, about course problems and so on.

我非常愿意同学生们一起讨论些好的想法,讨论下学习困难之类的话题

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