采取主动，确定一年中与此难以相处的人见面的次数、时间。
Proactively decide how many times a year you are willing to see this person and for how long.
我学会了尽可能灵活些，以积极的态度和难以相处的人打交道。
I have learned to be flexible when possible and to deal with difficult people in a positive manner.
如果你的家人或亲属中有这样难以相处的人，就不太可能完全摆脱。
If you have a difficult family member or relative, it is quite hard to remove them from your life completely.
然后考虑，这样的一个你，面对难以相处的人的时候，你希望自己如何反应？
Now, define how you'd like that person to respond when faced with the difficult people.
当然，你也许会觉得这是个过于乐观得活动，特别是当你和难以相处的人一起共事时。
Of course, you may think this a rather Pollyannaish activity... especially if you're working with some very difficult people.
要和各种各样的人进行上面的这种练习，比如专业的网管员，难以相处的人，以及和你性格相似的人等等。
Observe how the other party handles him/her. Try this exercise with different people – from savvy networkers, someone you find difficult to deal with as well, someone similar to you, etc.
内审工作经常面临难题，经常要面对一些难以相处的人，而同时又要保持冷静，这种冷静来自经验和自信。
The auditor faces difficult problems and often times difficult people, while maintaining the cool calmness that comes with experience and self-confidence.
不时地，我们会碰到一些我们觉得非常难以相处的人：顽固的人，不愿意用新方式思考的人，或不愿意换位思考的人。
From time to time, we are bound to come across people we find very difficult to get along with: people we find inflexible, unwilling to think in new ways, or to see things from our point of view.
我们把足够真诚的聆听、问题以及记忆融合在一起之后，理解通常就变得水到渠成了，进而，难以相处的人也就变得随和而易于合作。
When enough sincere listening, questioning, and remembering are brought together, understanding is usually achieved and a difficult person becomes less difficult and more cooperative.
但是正如有一些普通足够好的父母不可思议地制造出一个难以相处的孩子。一些大方得体的人们很不幸地有让人无法忍受的父母。
But just as there are ordinary good-enough parents who mysteriously produce a difficult child, there are some decent people who have the misfortune of having a truly toxic parent.
此外，办理者升迁到越高的位置，他/她就必须越多地与更有才干的人交道，这些个人知道如何得到本身想要的，他们往往难以相处，心志果断，有更强的权力欲。
Also, the further an executive rises, the more he or she must deal with high-caliber people who know how to get what they want, are difficult, strong-willed and have a sharp appetite for power.
彼得有时可能确实难以相处，尽管总体来讲他是一个很好的人。
Peter can be really difficult at times even though he's a nice person in general.
碰到错误，他们首先想到自己，拒不承认错误，或情绪低落或大发雷霆，成为有刺的人，难以相处。
When confronted with a mistake, they let their ego get in the way. They deny responsibility and became moody or angry. They mark themselves as "prickly".
碰到错误，他们首先想到自己，拒不承认错误，或情绪低落或大发雷霆，成为有刺的人，难以相处。
When confronted with a mistake, they let their ego get in the way. They deny responsibility and became moody or angry. They mark themselves as "prickly".
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