What is characteristic of a chronic complainer, according to psychiatrist Eric Berne?
根据精神病学家埃里克·伯恩的说法，习惯性抱怨者的特征是什么？
If nothing else showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself before you take it further, make it clear that you're not just a complainer.
在你采取进一步措施之前，先表现出你已经尝试过自己解决问题，向人表明你不是一个只会抱怨的人。
If nothing else, showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself before you take it farther makes it dear that you're not just a complainer.
如果没有其他的事情，在你进一步解决问题之前，表现出你已经尝试过自己解决问题，这会让人觉得你不是一个爱抱怨的人。
"I don't think I was a frequent complainer," Ginsberg said.
“我不认为我是一个经常抱怨，”金斯伯格说。
What if your boss hasn't had a pay bump for a while, either, and labels you a complainer?
如果老板有一阵子没给人加薪了怎么办？或者，让老板觉得你总爱抱怨又该怎么办？
Being a complainer. It's okay to complain every once in a while, but doing it all too often puts off people.
偶尔抱怨没什么事，但是如果你经常这样将会让别人很反感。
Start complaining and you will be rejected immediately, " Moran warns. "Do you like working with a complainer?
开始抱怨，则会使你可能会立即遭遇拒绝”莫兰警告说，“你喜欢与一位经常抱怨的人一起工作吗？
It is a general popular error to suppose the loudest complainer for the public to be the most anxious for its welfare.
以为为公众大声疾呼者就是最急于为公众谋福利的人，其实是一个极其普遍的错误。
Psychologist Jack Canfield has a good suggestion. Say to the complainer, "Suppose I were to say, 'Joe, you have green hair."
坎菲尔德有一个很好的建议，即对抱怨者说，“如果我对你说，‘乔，你长了绿头发。”’
Because the original complainer had posted full details of his experience, the company was able to contact the customer and rectify the situation.
因为这名用户将他所有的体验详细发布在网站上，企业可以直接和他取得联系并进行改进。
If nothing else, showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself, before you take it further, makes it clear that you're not just a complainer and can boost your credibility.
起码这能显示你有努力靠自己来解决这个问题，首先你要证明自己并不是只会抱怨；这样能增加你的可信度。
If nothing else, showing that you've tried to solve the problem yourself, before you take it further, makes it clear that you're not just a complainer and can boost your credibility.
起码这能显示你有努力靠自己来解决这个问题，首先你要证明自己并不是只会抱怨；这样能增加你的可信度。
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