Young children will usually compete for their mother's attention.
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在任何场合一个自恋的母亲都会和自己的孩子争宠。
A narcissistic mother competes with her own child when it comes to seeking love and affection from her family, friends and caretakers.
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我不想嫁进后宫就是不想过争宠的日子,时至今天,就算我真的在意刑睿,还是不想过争宠的日子。
I don't want to marry into an empress the temple is the day that didn't want to contend for spoiling, up to now sky, even if I really care Xing Rui, or didn't want to contend for spoiling of day.