Better make friends than make enemies
冤家宜解不宜结Better make friends than make enemies. 一言既出,驷马难追A real man never goes back on his words.
Better remove enmity than contract it
... 情人眼里出西施Love is blind. 冤家宜解不宜结Better remove enmity than contract it. 眼不见为净Out of sight, out of mind. ...
"冤家宜解不宜结"是个多义词,它可以指冤家宜解不宜结(小说),冤家宜解不宜结(汉语词语)。