The central meaning Shared by these verbs is. To fix the punishment or destiny of one found to be guilty or undeserving.
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中文意思是什么遇到你是命中注定,成为你的朋友是我的抉择,但爱上你却并非我的本意。
Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was ac Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.