First off I want to say that you can not fake confidence when interacting with women because they can easily tell whether a man is being himself or trying to impress them.

Men have power.Women are weak, and they have too much to lose.But I want to be happy.I could not accept that.

And the woman might say, "When I had the baby I felt so fragile. I was taking care of this little being, and I just needed extra comfort and caring myself, but he was out working all the time."