当你改变不了什么时，哭是没有用的，所以要有耐心。

When you can't change anything, crying is useless, so just be patient.

youdao

不论感情的本质是什么，一段感情最基础的部分是你要有想要满足的需求。

Whatever the nature of the relationship, the fundamental aspect is you have a need to be fulfilled.

youdao

再者就是表达很含糊，千篇一律的答案是“取决于你要有自己的风格”， 这是我能确信读到的意见，可是关键是我都不知道自己什么风格的？！

And a lot of it’s quite vague – the answer to most questions is “it depends on your personal style” which I’m sure it does, but what if you don’t know your personal style yet?!

youdao

Whenever I think about how to build an interesting program, and I hope whenever you think about it, the first thing I think about is, what are the classes I might want to have, what are the types?

无论我何时,去想怎样建立一个有趣的程序，你们每次做这种思考的时候，你们想得第一件事，就是我应该要有什么类呢，它们是什么类型的呢？

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What is it about Buddhism, what is the actual tradition you bring to that, is there a school of thought or being more specific, what is it?

佛教到底是要做什么，有哪些实际的传统惯例，有没有自成一派的学说,具体来说，佛教到底是什么？

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This is captured in this little quote by Woody Allen.

人为什么要杀生他为了有吃的,而且不仅仅是吃的,很多情况下还得有喝的

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