你的需要和需求与他的需要需求一样重要。 如果你没有将他们表达出来是因为你怕把他们吓跑，那就证明你自己都觉得你没有他重要。

Your wants and needs are just as important as his, and if you don't express them because you think it will scare him away, then you're saying you don't count as much as he does.

youdao

那杀身体不能杀灵魂的，不要怕他们。惟有能把身体和灵魂都灭在地狱里的，正要怕他。

And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.

youdao

他们都怕吉姆——醉鬼一个，但是他能搬倒法律，使法律替委托人说话，干这种事儿，堪萨斯西部再没有第二个；很多人都试过。

They were all afraid of Jim; he was a drunkard, but he could twist the law to suit his client's needs as no other man in all western Kansas could do; and there were many who tried.

youdao