To an adoptive parent, say the same stuff you would to any other parent: "She's adorable!" or "How old is he?"

对养父母，说你会对其他任何父母说的：“她很可爱！”或“他多大了？”

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The Capobiancos think the issue should be about whether the ICWA law can improperly block adoption proceedings voluntarily initiated by a non-Indian mother who had sole custody of her child, due to what the adoptive parents say is the Indian father's failure to establish a legal parent-child relationship under state law.

CNN: High court to tackle Native American adoption dispute