Then tell him about some of your special memories in order that he can understand more about why you are so keen to make a big fuss on someone's birthday.

去看看他喜不喜欢他的家人做事的方式，并且告诉他一些你特别的回忆，这样他就会更理解为什么你很渴望把生日办得很隆重了。

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Mr. Hanson, who seemed self-effacing and available in a way that those who make their living exploring the nooks and crannies of nature often are, attributed the fuss less to him than to his subject matter.

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