Allow all the painful places to come out of the shadows and embrace them in love.

让所有痛苦的部分都从阴影里走出来吧，用爱去拥抱它们。

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It's painful, in that we left behind the people we love the most. It was like tearing off a limb, except that you can live without a limb... living without these loved ones isn't so easy.

舍弃最爱的人是痛苦的，它就像扯掉了你的左膀右臂，除非你能够不依靠它们生活…离开了最爱的人的生活并不那么舒心。

youdao

In addition, the anguish associated with the need for love paradoxically causes some people to dispense with love altogether-it's just too painful for them.

此外，痛苦，以及对爱情的矛盾需求，导致一些人完全抛弃了爱情——这对他们说来太痛苦了。

youdao

Yet plainly not painful enough to jolt Hawaii out of its love of the status quo.

ECONOMIST: The state the boom forgot

We want to fall in love because being in love is like the best narcotic on earth, at once soothing and exciting, pleasurable and painful.

FORBES: Love Is A Drug