Spend time with them and do something they like doing for a change, instead of trying to be in charge.

花时间和他们在一起，有时要做些他们喜欢做的事情，而不要试图控制他们。

youdao

In order to know yourself you must spend some time regularly doing what you love.

为了了解你自己，你必须定期长期地花些时间去做你所热爱的事情。

youdao

So, what will be easier for you, to continue doing what you are doing, plodding along in desperate silence, OR spend time transforming the issues that prevent you from having your desires?

那么，什么对你来说更容易些呢，继续做你现在所做的事情，继续在绝望的寂静里漫步，或者投入些时间来改变那些阻止你得到你所渴望的东西的事情呢？

youdao

Does it give you the answer that you expected it to give? Often, in practical problems, you'll spend just as much time doing performance debugging. Why is it slow?

它返回了期待中的结果了么？通常,在实际的问题中你会花，同样多的时间在性能调试上,它为什么运行这么慢？

麻省理工公开课 - 计算机科学及编程导论课程节选

Rather than spend a day travelling by bus to the nearest bank, recipients in rural areas can spend their time doing more productive things.

ECONOMIST: Telecoms

We all get in the run up to general elections hundreds and hundreds of requests to fill in questionnaires, to sign declarations, we could spend our time doing nothing else, a lot of MPs quite honourably take the view, that's it, they, they just don't engage in that.

BBC: News Online

At the end of the day, the activity we spend most of our time doing in these games needs to be the strongest.

FORBES: 'Assassin's Creed IV: Black Flag' And The Lackluster Combat Of Ubisoft's Flagship Action Franchise