...离心离德 dissension and discord; be divided among oneself; disunity; divided in heart and divided in practice; divided loyalty; every man a heart.; fall away from; lack of cooperation; lack of solidarity ..
When I fall asleep at night, I turn awayfrom gazing at my husband beside me to gaze upon the faces of our children, in plain silver frames on our bedside table (that is, unless one of the three of them has decided to invade our bed, in which case I am gazing at their faces from far too close up).