Share a personal problem and ask your partner's advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

分享一个你的个人问题并向对方求教他将如何处理这个问题，同时让对方形容，你对选择的这个问题的感觉是怎样的。

youdao

Suddenly thought of a very serious problem, because never reflect on before, so when this problem in mind, flash-off time, we stubbornly believe that very serious.

忽然想到一个很严重的问题，因为从来不曾细想过，所以当这个问题在脑海里一闪而过的时候，便固执地认为相当严重。

youdao

You should reflect on this problem before you make a decision.

你得考虑一下这个问题再作决定。

youdao