Worse, watching their careers can discourage the rest of us, because things don't come easy for us, and we lose as often or more often than we win.

更糟糕的一点是，比照他们的事业会使我等灰心丧气，因为我们成事不易，往往成败相消甚或输多赢少。

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Still, think of all the good I could have done in the world as an efficient and effective conflict resolver rather than an all or nothing, win-lose, my way or the highway, litigator.

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