Those who find healthy relationships discover the secret, that our soul mate isn't actually perfect, but rather that person is "perfect" for us, flaws and all.

那些追寻健康关系的人发现了秘密所在，即我们的灵魂伴侣其实并不完美，但是对我们来说他们是却是完美的，因为我们会爱屋及乌。

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But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

其实，真正的灵魂伴侣只是一面镜子，向你展示一切拖你后腿的种种因素，让你关注自我，从而改变自己的人生。

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But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to to your own [w]attention[/w] so you can change your life. 2.

但是真正的灵魂伴侣是一面镜子，这个人会展现出所有让你退缩的事，让你注意到自己，这样就能改变人生。

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